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Maxed Out: Recognizing Stress and Taking Control
Stress is an unavoidable part of life. Sometimes it can provide a positive boost to accomplish a project or meet a deadline. Often, however, stress is a constant pressure in our lives that can result in relationship problems and affect our health and well being.
Modern life is busy and demanding. We’re often juggling roles and responsibilities, feeling like we’re never caught up. We don’t have time to enjoy the simple, pleasurable things in life.
When we’re stressed we may not even be aware that our bodies are responding in fight or flight mode. Our heart beats faster, jaw clenches, muscles tighten. We snap at other people, feel impatient and irritated. At night we lay in bed, tossing and turning, our thoughts racing.
Some people self-medicate by overeating, abusing alcohol, drugs or picking up a cigarette. Some work harder and move faster. People may also withdraw, or attack others out of frustration.
Studies show the less control people have in their lives, the higher their levels of stress. What some people don’t realize is that they do have choices.
Stress may a temporary situation that will resolve soon; it may be an ongoing part of your life due to an unresolved issue; or it may be an outside force over which you can’t control.
Here are some healthy ways to cope with stress:
- Be aware of negative thoughts and consciously replace them with positive thoughts. Don’t be so critical of yourself and others.
- Take a series of deep breaths to clear your head and refocus.
- Discontinue what you’re doing and try to take a brief walk.
- Learn to meditate.
- Include regular exercise into your routine.
- Keep a journal to write down how you’re feeling and work through problems.
- Connect with family and friends.
- Do activities and hobbies you enjoy.
- Learn the difference between the things you can change and the things you cannot.











